Italian is, for many, the language of love. Is it because of its melodic musicality, perhaps because of its long tradition in the arts such as music and poetry, or perhaps because it is the language of opera? Whether or not it is the language of love (many people also consider French, for example, to be the language of love), today we are going to focus on how this feeling is expressed through most common Italian love phrases and terms of endearment.
Discover with us ten ways to express love in Italian and dive into the fascinating world of feelings, from romantic love to platonic affection, in the boot shaped country. In each of them we will tell you if it is used romantically, or platonic, or if it is used in both contexts!
In this article, we will introduce you to the ten most common Italian love words, so you can start using them with the people you love.
Italian terms of endearment
Let’s begin this journey by focusing on the most frequently used Italian terms of endearment.
Amore mio
“Amore mio” is one of the most frequently used Italian terms of endearment, as it works perfectly both in a romantic context, and for platonic affection. You can use it to call your partner, as well as any member of your family or very close friends. Thus, it would be an equivalent of the English “Baby”.
In the southern part of Italy, it is usual to shorten “amore” in “amo”. That is why it is also easy to hear the appellative amomio.
Translation: “My love”
Tesoro mio
Another expression that you will also be able to hear in both romantic and platonic contexts. Like “Amore mio”, this Italian term of endearment does not change between masculine and feminine: you can use it the same with a friend as with your sister.
Translation: “My treasure”
Cucciolo/a
Every language have a way to call children in a cute and lovely way, and Italian is no exception. Generally, “Cucciolo” is the word used to designate the animals’ offspring; but you can use it to affectionately call any Italian child. Remember that, in this case, “Cucciolo” agrees on gender and number! So you’ll have to say “Cucciola” in feminine singular, “Cuccioli” in masculine plural or “Cucciole” in feminine plural.
Translation: “Puppy”
Topolino/a
This is also a way in which you can call children, as it has a rather childish sonority. However, it is not uncommon to use it also within the couple. As with “cucciolo”, you will have to adjust the ending and use “topolina” in the feminine singular.
Translation: “Little mouse”
Vita mia
If you are looking for an Italian term of endearment that leaves no doubt about the nature of your feelings, a 100% romantic form, then “vita mia” is for you.
It means that you can’t live without that other person, so -definitely- it’s not something you can use in a platonic context. This expression won’t need any changes when you use it for either a man or a woman.
Translation: “My life”
La mia stella
A very special expression to convey your feelings, which is almost never used in a platonic context. Although technically “La mia stella” can be used for both men and women, you will most likely hear this appellation intended for women.
Translation: “My star”
The diminutives
If you are looking for a personal way to show your affection, this trick can be the solution. Just add the suffix at the end of the word (respecting gender and number) and you will create a personalized term of endearment to use for both romantic love and platonic affection.
The most common diminutive in Italian is –ino (or -ina, -ini and -ine, depending on the gender and number of the word), but some words use other diminutives, such as -etto, -etta… There are also words that change slightly by adding the diminutive, such as “fiore” > “fiorellino” or “amico” > “amicicino”.
Example: a father says goodbye to his children and his wife, telling them “Vi voglio tanto bene, siete i miei fiorellini! E anche tu mi mancherai, scimmieta. Ciao!”
Translation of the example: “I love you so much, you are my little flowers! And I’m going to miss you too, little monkey Bye!”
Expressions to indicate your love
If we talk about how to express love in Italian, we must not forget the phrases you can use to declare it. Whether it is a romantic feeling or a platonic one, these are the phrases you can use to talk to your partner or your loved ones.
Ti amo
This list could not miss the classic “Ti amo”, which Umberto Tozzi universalized in the seventies. Although “amore mio” is used both romantically and platonically, make no mistake! If someone says “ti amo” to you, they are expressing a completely romantic love.
Translation: “I love you”
Ti voglio bene
You will find it impossible to spend a day in Italy without hearing this expression. It is used both among friends and within the family, and always describes a platonic feeling. For example, it is very commonly used when saying goodbye, and you can also find it as “Ti voglio tanto bene”.
Translation: “I love you” or “I esteem you”
Ti adoro
“Ti adoro” is a very versatile expression, which you can use in both romantic and platonic contexts. For example, you might hear someone say of their friend “lo adoro, mi fa sempre ridere”.
Translation: “I adore you”
Conclusion
With these Italian love phrases and terms of endearment, we give you a fascinating insight into how to express your affection and love in Italian.
Whether you are just starting to learn Italian or you are simply interested in the ways people from other cultures express their feelings, with these phrases we give you a little piece of Italy to enjoy.
Love is a universal language, but the ways of expressing it are as diverse as the people themselves, and each culture brings its own nuance and color.
We hope you have enjoyed our journey discovering how to express affection in Italian. Ti vogliamo tanto bene! Ciao!
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